Sonya’s Pithi + Mendhi Celebration | St. Louis Indian Photography

I hope you checked out Mayur’s Vidhi celebration, because we are now moving on to Sonya’s! It’s many of the same traditions, with a few other fun things! Mayur was definitely “cleansed” from his aunties covering him with tumeric. Sonya on the other hand, had it a little easier. Instead of the ladies using their hands, they used little round cotton pads. They seemed to apply it to Sonya “nicely” compared to Mayur. Poor Mayur!

We began the day with some family photos and then started the celebration in the living room. Sonya and her sister stood on short pedestals while they beautified her. All while her lovely aunts filled the room with sweet sounds and songs. Part of the celebration includes going outside to decorate a large pole. It signifies the first wedding structure they bless, in hopes of the wedding ceremony going well. They all lift it together and place it outside the home.

The next tradition is the packing of Sonya’s suitcase by her paternal aunties. This is when everyone begins to tear-up and cry! Including the photographer! We go outside again where her grandfather presents her with her beautiful wedding gown while the rest of the family presents sweets and other small gifts to be used on her wedding day. Her aunts pack the suitcase with items she will need in married life. Then in return, her Mother gives gifts to her aunties for packing it.

Later that evening, another part of preparing and beautifying oneself for the wedding is the Mendhi. It’s a casual night and time to apply the henna! This process is a first for me, so I was so excited to see this. Two amazing artists from Henna Art Designs in St. Charles, MO made the most beautiful designs – each one so different. I guess as unique as the lady who wears it. 🙂 Ryan definitely would want me to end on a note regarding the food. This was probably his favorite part, ha! They always kept him fed! (Thank you!) While the gals had their henna done on the inside, the men had cocktails and food on the patio. They had a tandoor (oven), preparing yummy kabobs and our very first experience with fresh home-made naan. Mmmmmmmmm.

Enjoy the photos! The wedding day is coming soon!

xox

HSR